No Marley for Me...NOT!!!

My uncle has a dog. It's white in colour, with grey ferocious eyes, viciously sharp tooth & claws. It has attacked almost every family member who has ever visited them & played with it. So I do neither play with it, nor like it! I cant stand street dogs. No, not because they are dirty or untamed, but because they are dogs.The only dog I can stand is a pug. (Yes, the ol' Hutch dog) But that too when it doesn't come near me! So note to whoever reads this: I HATE DOGS & I AM TOO SCARED OF THEM!!

But my uncle seems to like them. Particularly his dog. Inspite of being an absolutely lovely person, my uncle would not get rid of his attacker dog, He would take him out, feed him & all.I failed to understand his concern until now. Now that I've seen Marley & Me I am able to reason with his point of view.(click on the title for the synopsis of the movie)To start with, my prejudice against dogs did not stop me from enjoying the movie. Infact, the warmth & the depth of their relationship with the dog, actually moved me.The movie begins with a dog breaking loose it's collar & running away jumping hither thither. This kind of gives you a feel of what's in store for you. Being the exact opposite of a dog enthusiast, I wasn't really keen on watching further. But the way the movie unfolded got me interested. (yea..the cast did help!) Maybe the trailer would help you!

This movie is based on a book by John Grogan

named Marley and Me.And the movie directed by David Frankel is narrated from John Grogan's point of view. The man started off as a reporter,but took off as a feature writer. Marley was his one-point source of articles for a very long time.Grogan's articles were received so well that he wrote the book . Now the man is out with his 2nd book, a memoir, titled The Longest Trip

Home. You can get a whole lot of the John Grogan experience from his website which is a portal to his books and blog.

Being a budding Journalist myself it's a huge relief to know that it's okay to not know what exactly is going to

click for you. It's natural to think that you know what

suits you best and still go wrong.And that something, somewhere will work in your favor (too optimistic?! What can I say..am an optimist!)Infact that goes for not just any profession, but for life!

John Grogan could never tame Marley,though he always wanted to! He tried his best to train him, but in vain! So when not at home, John would never..and I mean NEVER let his leash loose. Owing to his behaviors Marley soon became sort of an impediment for the couple to have a baby, let alone have a vacation. But they worked things out patiently overcoming those rare thoughts of giving up on him. So the puppy unintentionally taught the couple to be patient about relationships. It made me think how difficult it could be to hold on to a relationship. And yet how wonderful it feels to look back at the years well spent. It made me think how easy it is to give up on someone or something. But to hold on to it means a hell lot of love, passion, adjustments and wit. And it's not wrong to adjust as long as it weighs less than your desire to make it work. And that is exactly what Jenny Grogan,played by Jennifer Aniston, does.

Jenny, wife of John Grogan, a journalist herself

wrote for the Post when she got married to John. She was a feature writer there.

As and when their family grew she decided o give up her job because bringing up the family was her priority. Sounds much like a trademark Ekta Kapoor K-series serial doesn't it?(Those of you who are

unaware of the Ekta magic may fondly click on her name.) Jenny relentlessly supports John in his career despite the fact that a career like his was something she had dreamed for herself. And she never tried to fulfill her dream through him by forcing him to do anything. And yes, she was constantly pregnant in the movie.Not once or twice, but thrice.Juggling her time between the three kids and Marley can't be as easy as it sounds. But Jenny manages to sail through all this with some patience, tolerence and a lot of love. To me Jenny Grogan sounded like a true blue bharathiya nari who is often picturised as the one to sacrifice her career for her family. As I may reserve my comments on the matter, this is not the only part I felt was probably larger than life.

The variety of troubles Marley puts the

Grogans through sometimes catched you by surprise. One tends to wonder if Marley was actually 'the world's worst dog'?! There were even some who wondered if Marley's erratic and high strung behavior was due to some psychological condition. There is a scene when Jenny asks John to get rid of Marley immediately. To be frank my heart goes out to Jenny just as it does to Marley at that point. Here is a list of some of Marley's

naughty feats.

• Eating the sofa cushions and every other piece of furniture edible to him.
• Wrecking the couples relationship with all the babysitters, mailmen and sorts in the locality
• Swallowing a necklace John intends to gift Jenny when she was pregnantthe 1st time(It eventually gets gifted..dogs poop u know!)
• Pooping on one of the only beached open to dogs leading the cops to find it out and shutting it for dogs.

But all is not bad. Marley did a lot of good deeds to the family too!Here is a list of those.

• Getting John to realize that it's time to move on with the 'plan' and have a baby.
• Sort of console Jenny when she miscarried their 1st baby.
• Helped John from freaking out when the Grogans actually had their baby.
• Being the same ol' Marley when the whole world was changing around John and he wanted to be grounded.

The biggest grief that Marley could give the family was his death. The columnist John Grogan once said that the most response he got for his column was for the eulogy he wrote for Marley after his death.

So a journalist by profession, it is but natural that John Grogan writes about his experiences with 'the world's worst dog'. But what are the odds that it gets made into a motion picture?! But as OwenWilson(who plays John Grogan) says in the movie, "I have a tendency to surprise myself!" Well, that seems to be the story of his life!(Read John Grogan's 2nd book for reference.)

The trend of the time seems to be making movies from either real life incidents, books or both.

I wouldn't start taking names, but you can just look around

for names!Is it because it's an easier to get a good story that way? One doesn't have to churn their brains a lot for an appealing story. Or is it because we love slice-of-life stories these days?

The best thing about this movie is that you would enjoy it irrespective of whether or not you own a dog. It is about the love and patience that goes into building a relationship. Though humans might not need to have such a hell lot of patience to get to stand one another, it got me thinking that how often we give up on each other. There is little though on why and how we gave up, on be it an idea or a person. But does that mean that we work on impulse? I think not. But just as a Karan Johar movie would say, the heart can seldom go wrong(oh wait! He says the heart can never go wrong. But I beg to differ)

I don't feel the urge to comment on any of the performances except for Marley. The dog who played Marley was fabulous. He really brought out the essence of the movie& the dog. The marvelous actor would be a labrador retriever named Rudy/Brownie. Let us not forget to appreciate his trainer, when we congratulate Marley. So kudos to his trainer Jim Warren who has been in the trade for quite some time now. One cant expect it to be as easy as it looks! Here is this interesting read about training animals in movies. Click!

All this about Marley leaves us with an urge to see the real marvel, Marley. The real Marley acted in a movie called The Last Home Run.

So here's signing off with a thought. A quote from the movie. "How many people can make you feel rare, and pure, and special? How many people can make you feel extraordinary?"